There is no Nonlethal Power or Merciful Power feat.
There is, however, a Nonlethal Substitution metamagic feat, found in Book of Exalted Deeds and Complete Arcane, which allows a spell to deal nonlethal damage instead of energy damage. As HeyICanChan’s answer indicates, Epic Level Handbook suggests that a metamagic effect can be translated to metapsionic by converting the spell-level increase to a 2 power point increase.
My answer, however, is that Epic Level Handbook is wrong about that conversion, or at least is not telling the whole story. Many metapsionic effects with metamagic analogues did not use that conversion. Here are some examples:
Meta Effect |
Spell Level Increase |
Power Point Increase |
Uses ELH formula |
Chain |
+3 |
+6 |
Yes |
Empower |
+2 |
+2 |
No |
Enlarge |
+1 |
+0 |
No |
Extend |
+1 |
+2 |
Yes |
Energy Substitution |
+0 |
+0 |
N/A |
Energy Admixture |
+4 |
+8 |
Yes |
Quicken |
+4 |
+6 |
No |
Reach |
+2 |
+2 |
No |
Repeat |
+3 |
+6 |
Yes |
Sculpt |
+1 |
+2 |
Yes |
Transdimensional |
+1 |
+0 |
No |
Twin |
+4 |
+6 |
No |
Widen |
+3 |
+4 |
No |
So there are actually more metapsionic effects that don’t use the Epic Level Handbook formula (7) than those that do (5) (I am leaving Energy Substitution out since it has no adjustment). Those that don’t use the formula all use the same formula:
$$\left(\Delta L_{spell} - 1\text{ spell level}\right) \times 2\ \frac{\text{power points}}{\text{spell level}}$$
Where \$\Delta L_{spell}\$ is the spell level increase of the metamagic effect. Why do these effects count as a spell level less when metapsionic? To my mind, there is an easy answer to that: because metapsionics also require the expenditure of psionic focus. In this formula, that cost “covers” a spell level’s worth of cost for us.
Unfortunately, there isn’t a whole lot of rhyme or reason to which effects get this discount and which do not. It’s not as though Expanded Psionics Handbook and Complete Psionic used different formulas, or that there appears to be a particular attempt to rebalance things by apply the discount to the weakest effects (Quicken is one of the discounted effects!). So there isn’t a lot to go on here.
Now, Nonlethal Substitution is a pretty good meta effect—because it replaces the energy damage with “nonlethal damage,” that is untyped damage that is nigh-impossible to resist. Constructs, swarms, and the undead are immune to nonlethal damage, but other than those things resistance or immunity to it is fairly rare. But you also have to spend a feat on it, plus expending psionic focus is a pretty big deal. And blasting is sub-par.
So personally, my choice would be for a Psionic Nonlethal Substitution metapsionic feat to cost 0 extra power points, just require expending psionic focus.