Page 200 of the DMG says that a wizard scroll can be copied into a spellbook
A wizard spell on a spell scroll can be copied just as spells in spellbooks can be copied. When a spell is copied from a spell scroll, the copier must succeed on an Intelligence (Arcana) check with a DC equal to 10 + the spell's level. If the check succeeds, the spell is successfully copied. Whether the check succeeds or fails, the spell scroll is destroyed (DMG)
Does an Arcane Trickster have a spellbook to copy a scroll into?
If they do have a spellbook, is the entire Wizard list open to them, or only enchantment and illusion spells? i.e. could they copy Absorb Elements (a 1st level Wizard Abjuration spell)
You know three 1st-level wizard spells of your choice, two of which you must choose from the enchantment and illusion spells on the wizard spell list. (PHB)
- If they don't have a spellbook, is there an acceptable mechanic for
learning or memorizing the spell on the scroll that is similar to
how a wizard would be able to learn it? (And is the entire Wizard
list open to them)
Intelligence is your spellcasting ability for your wizard spells, since you learn your spells through dedicated study and memorization. (PHB)