I have several players who enjoy playing the game. They seem to enjoy role-playing, exploring, and any form of social interaction.

However, it seems that some of my current players consistently ignore the existence of many important mechanics (e.g., disengaging). This is the first time I experience this.

How can I help my players invest more in learning the mechanics of the game?

I have considered trying to improve communication with my players online. This could help motivate learning and would add the unintentional social expectation to keep the game going. We have a mass discord channel for all of our players and DMs (we treat it as a club house and I have roles that give access to each campaign and oneshot's respective channels, as well as private channels for DMs and player groups.)

However, I've noticed that players are not very active outside of game time.

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    \$\begingroup\$ Your first paragraph is a little unclear. Especially the sentence after the question. \$\endgroup\$
    – ValhallaGH
    Commented Nov 26, 2019 at 21:29
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    \$\begingroup\$ How often does your group play? Do you play in person or online over Discord? Have you talked with your players about what sorts of game they're interested in playing? \$\endgroup\$
    – Upper_Case
    Commented Nov 26, 2019 at 22:48
  • \$\begingroup\$ Related As a group unfamiliar with RPGs, how do I encourage my players to read the rulebook? \$\endgroup\$
    – Dale M
    Commented Nov 27, 2019 at 5:15
  • \$\begingroup\$ @Upper_Case-StopHarmingMonica In person and over discord depending on if people can make it to where the DM is right now its half and half since two members are in a different state and rest are all within a 20 minute drive to one another. \$\endgroup\$
    – Rob
    Commented Nov 27, 2019 at 18:13

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Teach by showing

Many people don't want to learn things that will not benefit themselves. One easy way to show them the benefits without spoonfeeding them is to have NPCs do the thing you want the players to learn.

For example, have the NPCs fight a group of goblins. Have the goblins force the players to run away or re-position constantly. The players will quickly learn that getting hit by opportunity attacks sucks. Have the goblins constantly run away and re-position, but have them always disengage to avoid being hit. Be open about the way the goblins are behaving; "this goblin takes the disengage action to avoid triggering opportunity attacks, and then moves to here".

Present a situation where the mechanic is important

Often in D&D players will face encounters appropriate to their skill level. This prevents players from learning. You should consider having them face encounters that they cannot beat at their current skill level. Give them an encounter that they will not win unless they use the mechanics you want them to learn. Just make sure you first show them the mechanic with NPCs so they are aware of it.

Give them the opportunity to discover and apply the knowledge. You may be surprised, they may understand the mechanic but not think it is useful because the fights are too easy, or it's more fun to do something else.

Disengage is a great example of this problem. Most classes have to give up an attack to disengage, so I think many players will think "well, I can just attack and try to end the fight sooner rather than running and being hit next turn anyway".

Accept the player's weaknesses

Be aware that learning may be a slow process. It may take several fights against different species and classes to get the idea across.

It's possible that even with an incentive your players still won't want to learn. That's fine, they enjoy other parts of the game and their combat will suffer. There are plenty of people who play D&D for the combat and are poor role players. Does it really matter if the party aren't great in combat?


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