While not specific to Pathfinder, D&D made it clear that it took time for souls to reach the plane of their deities.
Pathfinder, specifically, says reincarnate only works, even in Pathfinder, for a limited time after death, implying that it takes time to reach the plane of one's deity. It fails automatically on unwilling souls.
With this spell, you bring back a dead creature in another body,
provided that its death occurred no more than one week before the
casting of the spell and the subject’s soul is free and willing to return.
If the subject’s soul is not willing to return, the spell does not work;
therefore, a subject that wants to return receives no saving throw.
(Pathfinder Beta, p. 262)
So, knowing that the description of Reincarnate makes the player's objection invalid, how about Raise Dead?
You restore life to a deceased creature. You can raise a creature that
has been dead for no longer than 1 day per caster level. In addition, the
subject’s soul must be free and willing to return. If the subject’s soul is
not willing to return, the spell does not work; therefore, a subject that
wants to return receives no saving throw.
*(Pathfinder Beta, p. 260)
One day per caster level, and requires the soul be willing. So again, nope.
Resurrection has the same limits on time and willingness as raise dead, but can be used on those poisoned, subjected to death effects, or raised as undead and then destroyed.
So, finally, True Resurrection...
True Resurrection allows 10 years per caster level, and as a 9th level spell, that's nearly a 2 century minimum... but it's described as...
This spell functions like raise dead, except that you can resurrect a creature that has been dead for as long as 10 years per caster level."
(Pathfinder Beta, p 283)
... so again, if the spell worked, either the subject wasn't happy, wasn't with his deity, or was willing to come back in the name of justice, or was geased into it by someone on the deific plane.
So, in a D&D or Pathfinder context, the player has no leg to stand upon with the "but I was happily dead" argument, because such a character can't be resurrected or reincarnated.
Also note: Reincarnation doesn't even retain all of a character's memories of life. None of them speak of memories of the afterlife.
A reincarnated creature recalls the majority of its former life and form.
(Pathfinder Beta, p. 262)